Friend of God

John 15:15. . .”I do not call you servants (slaves) any longer, for the servant does not know what his master is doing (working out). But I have called you My friends, because I have made known to you everything that I have heard from My Father.”
The basic definition of a christian-friend of Almighty God by the blood of Jesus Christ. Kind of like the song “friend of God”. Like a preacher, and even a christian movie that I saw, a relationship with the creator of the universe is supposed to be an adventure. So why doesn’t it look that way when you look at most christians? Most christians to be honest look like they’re trying to hang on till the Lord comes for them.